I do a good number of astrology consultations and almost all of them are with women. Less than 5% of my clients are men and I’ll tell you right now, it may as well be 0% because it does not work out and I think I have figured out why.
I am very direct in my communications. I am the kind of astrologer who will tell you exactly, very precisely what the situation is and overwhelmingly, the women I consult with take my advice.
They take it because they can see or sense it will lead them where they want to go. They take it because I am older and they respect that.
In some cases I am not older but I have experience in a specialized area (like court or mediation) that they lack, or just the ability to suss out motives of people both theirs or others. In whatever case, the women do take my advice and many of them take it to the letter but the men are a whole different story.
I work with men the same way I work with women but it is not effective at all. It just plain doesn’t work and I think the reason is because men don’t want advice from a woman. I mean they just do not want to be told what they could or should do, no matter what and I don’t think this is conscious! I think it is just a fact.
That said, I know of one astrologer who does work successfully with men. She claims 40% of her clients are men and I am sure this is the case. She has a very yang chart and that could be the difference?
I have a very yin chart. I am undeniably “womanly” I just don’t think men want to see me as some kind of authority and so they don’t.
I don’t really want to have authority over men so it’s just as well. I will be happy to work with 100% women and watch the men from afar.
Your thoughts on this?